Hi,
I just wanted to add my two cents, as I read that you are really paranoid about what happened, and it does sound like you may have not been mentally or emotionally ready. That's OK...it sounds like you and your boyfriend were able to communicate before and after which is THE most important part about being physically intimate with someone.
I agree with Maryann about the reasons you may have experienced pain; your mind is the most powerful sex organ, and if you were feeling anxious or had doubts, you were most likely not as lubricated as you could have been, and lack-of-self-lubrication would lead to painful sex.
Congratulations on speaking up, and telling your boyfriend that he needs to wear a condom. Condoms are up to 99% effective at preventing pregnancy when used correctly, and if your boyfriend did not ejaculate...you would have little-to-no chance of pregnancy from this safer sex behavior.
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Hi,
I just wanted to add my two cents, as I read that you are really paranoid about what happened, and it does sound like you may have not been mentally or emotionally ready. That's OK...it sounds like you and your boyfriend were able to communicate before and after which is THE most important part about being physically intimate with someone.
I agree with Maryann about the reasons you may have experienced pain; your mind is the most powerful sex organ, and if you were feeling anxious or had doubts, you were most likely not as lubricated as you could have been, and lack-of-self-lubrication would lead to painful sex.
Congratulations on speaking up, and telling your boyfriend that he needs to wear a condom. Condoms are up to 99% effective at preventing pregnancy when used correctly, and if your boyfriend did not ejaculate...you would have little-to-no chance of pregnancy from this safer sex behavior.
March 3, 2011 - 9:23amThis Comment
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