I can tell you that when he was deployed, he was on a safe base and he described it to me like he was working out of state for a year. I'm afraid he did something there with someone and he's feeling guilty for it. I don't know. My mind wanders and makes me think that something else is going on. I was faithful for a year and hope he was too but now that he's home, we should be having sex more frequently. I asked him if he was masturbating while he was there and he said no. He said he had no interest while he was there and he doesn't really have any sexual interest now. I don't get it. I'm 37 and in my prime and MISS him after a year and he's just not interested? I agree we should see a counselor but I'm afraid of him blaming me and making me feel worse than I already do. (By blaming I mean saying I get too excited or I'm not as sexy as I used to be or anything that makes me feel more horrible than I already do) Any ideas how to find the right therapist?
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I can tell you that when he was deployed, he was on a safe base and he described it to me like he was working out of state for a year. I'm afraid he did something there with someone and he's feeling guilty for it. I don't know. My mind wanders and makes me think that something else is going on. I was faithful for a year and hope he was too but now that he's home, we should be having sex more frequently. I asked him if he was masturbating while he was there and he said no. He said he had no interest while he was there and he doesn't really have any sexual interest now. I don't get it. I'm 37 and in my prime and MISS him after a year and he's just not interested? I agree we should see a counselor but I'm afraid of him blaming me and making me feel worse than I already do. (By blaming I mean saying I get too excited or I'm not as sexy as I used to be or anything that makes me feel more horrible than I already do) Any ideas how to find the right therapist?
April 4, 2011 - 6:43amThis Comment
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