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Hi Angeljoy,
You have many issues to resolve and not one has a simple solution. If you separate each issue, you might be able to find validation yourself, You realize that you are overweight, you want to lose weight and acknowledge that eat for comfort. In doing so, you are only hurting yourself. Begin by loving yourself. Put yourself first. Seek help if you must, as in a dieting support group, such as Weight Watchers. Work on losing weight-it will be better for your health, both physical and emotional. Do it for yourself, not because of what other people say or think.
The situation with your boyfriend is complicated because of his attachment to his parents. You say that you love him but you have strong issues with his personality, lifestyle and his family. Are you certain that you want to marry him, have a life-long commitment with him and have children together?
Only you can decide if you want to spend the rest of your life with this man. It is unrealistic to think that you can change him, especially if he sees no need to change.
If you truly cannot live without him in your life, maybe counseling is what your relationship needs.