Sigh, so maybe my story is different. But I feel psychologically drained by my relationship. I feel like my husband withholds sex as punishment, tries to distort my reality by creating a scenario I'm uncomfortable with then when I react, goes on to make me feel guilty saying he thought "I'd be happy, but he guesses he won't be doing it again" he does this so on a later date when he excludes me in that particular activity he can use the, 'well remember how you acted last time' thing. He loves being the center of attention, so if anyone starts to give me a little more attention he will try his best to get me ignored. When I say this guy will use anything to unsettle my emotions, for disrespectful remarks that he says are jokes, watch movies that he can make certain remarks and claim he is speaking about the movie, not me, or downright treat me disrespectfully in front of ppl to the extent that I'm left looking like I deserved it. He always gets his way somehow, by making me feel bad, or by complaining so much so that i just give in and do whatever it is he wants to do. I feel like I've lost my identity trying to love this man, and the sad part is, not only do I love him, I'm still in love with him.
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Sigh, so maybe my story is different. But I feel psychologically drained by my relationship. I feel like my husband withholds sex as punishment, tries to distort my reality by creating a scenario I'm uncomfortable with then when I react, goes on to make me feel guilty saying he thought "I'd be happy, but he guesses he won't be doing it again" he does this so on a later date when he excludes me in that particular activity he can use the, 'well remember how you acted last time' thing. He loves being the center of attention, so if anyone starts to give me a little more attention he will try his best to get me ignored. When I say this guy will use anything to unsettle my emotions, for disrespectful remarks that he says are jokes, watch movies that he can make certain remarks and claim he is speaking about the movie, not me, or downright treat me disrespectfully in front of ppl to the extent that I'm left looking like I deserved it. He always gets his way somehow, by making me feel bad, or by complaining so much so that i just give in and do whatever it is he wants to do. I feel like I've lost my identity trying to love this man, and the sad part is, not only do I love him, I'm still in love with him.
November 26, 2015 - 10:53amThis Comment
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