Hi everyone I've been feeling really alone till I found this article.
I'm at my wits end with my husband I don't think I can take anymore!
Everything is my fault and the whole world revolves around him and money! If I ask him if he bought me anything the answer would be I've not bought myself anything or if we are out shopping and I say I'm hungry can I get some food he will say I haven't had anything! He
controls everything I spend and if I ask for anything at all even if we can afford it he throws a fit and finds some way to embarrass me and start an argument to the point if we are out he will start whispering nasty comments to me calling me names!
I get called lots of names on a daily basis and he has a very bad anger problem where he will kick punch hit things scream shout and say the most awful things like he hates me more than he has ever hated anyone, he is going to divorce me, he will take the kids because a court wouldn't let me have them because I'm disabled, he can't stand me and many many more but it's the looks he gives me when he says them like he has reached inside and crushed my heart! I have been married to him for 6 years we have 2 beautiful children a boy and a girl who often here the nastiness he gives to me as the kids often say why is daddy so nasty to you or say to him to stop being nasty to mummy but then he shouts at them! He was so different in the beginning he has got worse and worse as times gone on he used to say he loved me and that I am beautiful every day but not anymore plus of I get dressed up I used to get complimented but now nothing all I get is off the kids saying I look lovely which then upsets me even more that my 4 year old can say it but he can't! He is so so horrible to me both my mum and dad have passed recently and I'm only in my twenties it has been so hard for me and he has barely been there he never comforts me or thinks about what he's saying I've also lost the rest of my family because of him but I think he uses the fact I have no1 and that I am disabled to his advantage and he is all I have and thinks I'll never leave him! Being christmas I like to do little things with the kids that I had as a child and each year he complains more about them he just started a big argument on my stupid traditions and how he hopes the is the last Christmas he has to spend with me! He's always threatening to leave me but then acts like he's said nothing the next day and when I say we need to talk about what's happened and work things out he says no let's just leave it I don't want to talk about it just forget it and get on with it but am I right to think we should talk about it as nothing is getting resolved! I've tried to tell him how he is making me feel on so many occasions but isn't bothered in the slightest and doesn't even say sorry for things he says and does anymore I'm so sad down depressed and lonely I would love any advice going I'm stuck in a miserable life please help thank you in advance x
Comment Reply
Hi everyone I've been feeling really alone till I found this article.
December 20, 2015 - 4:30pmI'm at my wits end with my husband I don't think I can take anymore!
Everything is my fault and the whole world revolves around him and money! If I ask him if he bought me anything the answer would be I've not bought myself anything or if we are out shopping and I say I'm hungry can I get some food he will say I haven't had anything! He
controls everything I spend and if I ask for anything at all even if we can afford it he throws a fit and finds some way to embarrass me and start an argument to the point if we are out he will start whispering nasty comments to me calling me names!
I get called lots of names on a daily basis and he has a very bad anger problem where he will kick punch hit things scream shout and say the most awful things like he hates me more than he has ever hated anyone, he is going to divorce me, he will take the kids because a court wouldn't let me have them because I'm disabled, he can't stand me and many many more but it's the looks he gives me when he says them like he has reached inside and crushed my heart! I have been married to him for 6 years we have 2 beautiful children a boy and a girl who often here the nastiness he gives to me as the kids often say why is daddy so nasty to you or say to him to stop being nasty to mummy but then he shouts at them! He was so different in the beginning he has got worse and worse as times gone on he used to say he loved me and that I am beautiful every day but not anymore plus of I get dressed up I used to get complimented but now nothing all I get is off the kids saying I look lovely which then upsets me even more that my 4 year old can say it but he can't! He is so so horrible to me both my mum and dad have passed recently and I'm only in my twenties it has been so hard for me and he has barely been there he never comforts me or thinks about what he's saying I've also lost the rest of my family because of him but I think he uses the fact I have no1 and that I am disabled to his advantage and he is all I have and thinks I'll never leave him! Being christmas I like to do little things with the kids that I had as a child and each year he complains more about them he just started a big argument on my stupid traditions and how he hopes the is the last Christmas he has to spend with me! He's always threatening to leave me but then acts like he's said nothing the next day and when I say we need to talk about what's happened and work things out he says no let's just leave it I don't want to talk about it just forget it and get on with it but am I right to think we should talk about it as nothing is getting resolved! I've tried to tell him how he is making me feel on so many occasions but isn't bothered in the slightest and doesn't even say sorry for things he says and does anymore I'm so sad down depressed and lonely I would love any advice going I'm stuck in a miserable life please help thank you in advance x
This Comment
Reply