Yes, SO right on there Kim and I wil just add the LONGER you stay letting him be that way and not informing him its not ok. You need to talk, he needs to see someone, or couples therapy. Make it clear you wont put up wtih that kind of treatment, not in the agnry way, not in the ultimatum way just in the communicative way of this is your truth tostand in it that that behavior is just not ok and any repetition of it, is abusive. Longer you dont do that, the MORE he will stay that way, the MORE he will feel free and justified, and the LONGER you wait the more chance of his bad reaction and divorce instead of working it out together. ALSO if you stand it too long you will start to turn on him and in turn that turns you on yourself and then it becomes an internal and external war zone and it will just slowly detsory you , him and your relationship. I should know, I went through it and thats what happneed, I though I get better he will and no he got worse I could not save us both though I tried for many many years. Much love to you. In gratitude LayaNicole <3
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Yes, SO right on there Kim and I wil just add the LONGER you stay letting him be that way and not informing him its not ok. You need to talk, he needs to see someone, or couples therapy. Make it clear you wont put up wtih that kind of treatment, not in the agnry way, not in the ultimatum way just in the communicative way of this is your truth tostand in it that that behavior is just not ok and any repetition of it, is abusive. Longer you dont do that, the MORE he will stay that way, the MORE he will feel free and justified, and the LONGER you wait the more chance of his bad reaction and divorce instead of working it out together. ALSO if you stand it too long you will start to turn on him and in turn that turns you on yourself and then it becomes an internal and external war zone and it will just slowly detsory you , him and your relationship. I should know, I went through it and thats what happneed, I though I get better he will and no he got worse I could not save us both though I tried for many many years. Much love to you. In gratitude LayaNicole <3
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