Honey. Please do the following: (1) get a lawyer (2) get a therapist (3) get a plan. Your commitment has not been honored so the marital commitment made years ago is no longer valid. He is not part of the marriage. Sometimes we need help with hard truths and you reaching out was a wonderful thing to do - so now here it is - your marriage is not a marriage, and his treatment of you is hard to read. It's a terrible way to live. Please do something for yourself and get going. You deserve so much more. And remember this, you are teaching your young child how to be treated - she will do the same thing you are doing when she gets older b/c it's all she knows. If you can't do it for you, do it for her. Please. Hugs.
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Honey. Please do the following: (1) get a lawyer (2) get a therapist (3) get a plan. Your commitment has not been honored so the marital commitment made years ago is no longer valid. He is not part of the marriage. Sometimes we need help with hard truths and you reaching out was a wonderful thing to do - so now here it is - your marriage is not a marriage, and his treatment of you is hard to read. It's a terrible way to live. Please do something for yourself and get going. You deserve so much more. And remember this, you are teaching your young child how to be treated - she will do the same thing you are doing when she gets older b/c it's all she knows. If you can't do it for you, do it for her. Please. Hugs.
April 20, 2016 - 3:13pmThis Comment
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