Thanks so much for sharing your opinion! I agree with you - sex with an ex has the potential to be quite tricky. This is why it is so important to be confident in your own feelings, attitudes and choices; don't do it for the sake of a relationship past - do it for YOU and the amazing, sexy woman that you are all by yourself. Furthermore, I think it is even MORE important that you and your partner can have a conversation about the implications of your actions BEFORE taking off all your clothes. If everyone is on the same page that break-up sex is very different from get-back-together-on-a-whim sex, there is a smaller chance that old feelings will resurface and leave you confused or upset.
Of course, I recognize that there are some people and relationship situations that should probably be never be touched again - even with a ten foot pole. It takes a smart and empowered woman (like you!) to realize her boundaries and make choices that are good for her and her ex.
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Dear Anonymous,
Thanks so much for sharing your opinion! I agree with you - sex with an ex has the potential to be quite tricky. This is why it is so important to be confident in your own feelings, attitudes and choices; don't do it for the sake of a relationship past - do it for YOU and the amazing, sexy woman that you are all by yourself. Furthermore, I think it is even MORE important that you and your partner can have a conversation about the implications of your actions BEFORE taking off all your clothes. If everyone is on the same page that break-up sex is very different from get-back-together-on-a-whim sex, there is a smaller chance that old feelings will resurface and leave you confused or upset.
Of course, I recognize that there are some people and relationship situations that should probably be never be touched again - even with a ten foot pole. It takes a smart and empowered woman (like you!) to realize her boundaries and make choices that are good for her and her ex.
Thanks again!
April 24, 2011 - 6:15amHannah
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