I definitely get what you're saying, I just know it can lead to what the commenter said above, or it can lead to an ongoing "friends with benefits" situation that can make it hard to move on.
Even if you think it's just one-time sex or sex on the side, you might not feel as motivated to go out and date because you have comfortable sex waiting for you. Also, if you do decide to move on, your ex or now "friend with benefits" might feel tricked and lash out.
You did emphasize the importance of communication before sex happens, but I think sex can still change peoples' minds afterward (for better or worse).
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I definitely get what you're saying, I just know it can lead to what the commenter said above, or it can lead to an ongoing "friends with benefits" situation that can make it hard to move on.
Even if you think it's just one-time sex or sex on the side, you might not feel as motivated to go out and date because you have comfortable sex waiting for you. Also, if you do decide to move on, your ex or now "friend with benefits" might feel tricked and lash out.
You did emphasize the importance of communication before sex happens, but I think sex can still change peoples' minds afterward (for better or worse).
April 27, 2011 - 12:09pmThis Comment
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