I am having the same problem with my boyfriend of 4 years. Most nights he just won't come to bed, or when he does, often I wake up and he's not there. On occasion he will sleep the whole night through. I doubt he is cheating, it doesn't seem like that's the issue. I feel like he may just be getting sick of me. Or it could be as simple as the bed makes his back hurt and the couch gives him more support. This has been going on for the past few months and whenever I ask he says something about the bed. Last night this happened and I asked and he said he was just "done sleeping in the bed". Whatever this is, I've talked to a few people about it, is not a good sign. Our relationship is healthy otherwise, we are attracted to each other, do things together, etc. but we are having financial issues so perhaps the stress from that has an effect on all this. This post was done five years ago so I hope everything has worked out!
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I am having the same problem with my boyfriend of 4 years. Most nights he just won't come to bed, or when he does, often I wake up and he's not there. On occasion he will sleep the whole night through. I doubt he is cheating, it doesn't seem like that's the issue. I feel like he may just be getting sick of me. Or it could be as simple as the bed makes his back hurt and the couch gives him more support. This has been going on for the past few months and whenever I ask he says something about the bed. Last night this happened and I asked and he said he was just "done sleeping in the bed". Whatever this is, I've talked to a few people about it, is not a good sign. Our relationship is healthy otherwise, we are attracted to each other, do things together, etc. but we are having financial issues so perhaps the stress from that has an effect on all this. This post was done five years ago so I hope everything has worked out!
June 12, 2016 - 11:36amThis Comment
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