I'm sorry you're going through this-- He is stressed out about not having a job but he's finding time to chat with other women? About what? His low libido and unemployment? I'm assuming by what you said that the messages you read from other women were flirtacious and not just regular texts from women that you both know. If this is the case then you should sit him down for a long conversation. Quite frankly, the fact that he isn't having sex with you any more goes hand-in-hand with him forming emotional relationships with other women. Getting to the bottom of what's going on with him emotionally is really where the focus should be going-- it seems like the low libido and stress are a cop-out for being physically and emotionally disconnected with you. If you're going to marry this man, these issues should be addressed before the big "I do's".
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Hi cherries,
I'm sorry you're going through this-- He is stressed out about not having a job but he's finding time to chat with other women? About what? His low libido and unemployment? I'm assuming by what you said that the messages you read from other women were flirtacious and not just regular texts from women that you both know. If this is the case then you should sit him down for a long conversation. Quite frankly, the fact that he isn't having sex with you any more goes hand-in-hand with him forming emotional relationships with other women. Getting to the bottom of what's going on with him emotionally is really where the focus should be going-- it seems like the low libido and stress are a cop-out for being physically and emotionally disconnected with you. If you're going to marry this man, these issues should be addressed before the big "I do's".
All the best,
Rosa
May 26, 2011 - 8:18amThis Comment
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