Could he possibly be self-conscious not about his looks but about his performance? If that's the case then that would explain why he isn't making an effort to please you or have intercourse. Unfortunately Anon, there are many reasons why men won't have sex with their girlfriends/wives-- sometimes the truth comes out in the open, sometimes the other partner gets fed up, and sometimes we never know the truth. But if you're unhappy now, it may never get better. My only suggestion is that you try communicating once more and come across as passionately as you have come across to me. That's really the best thing you can do-- because you can't force him to have sex and if he's just not that into sex with you, nothing you say or do will change his mind.
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Could he possibly be self-conscious not about his looks but about his performance? If that's the case then that would explain why he isn't making an effort to please you or have intercourse. Unfortunately Anon, there are many reasons why men won't have sex with their girlfriends/wives-- sometimes the truth comes out in the open, sometimes the other partner gets fed up, and sometimes we never know the truth. But if you're unhappy now, it may never get better. My only suggestion is that you try communicating once more and come across as passionately as you have come across to me. That's really the best thing you can do-- because you can't force him to have sex and if he's just not that into sex with you, nothing you say or do will change his mind.
Wishing you the best,
Rosa
June 2, 2011 - 6:09amThis Comment
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