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Hi Anon,

Thank you for your question, you have nothing to be ashamed about here on EmpowHer. The way your vagina looks, despite many believing that it is based on sex/masturbation, varies from person to person. Anatomically every woman has the same parts (vulva, clitoris, etc) but they don't all look the same.

I don't know if you are a virgin or not because I don't know if you have masturbated only by playing with your clitoris or if you have gone as far as masturbating with dildos. And in many cultures, the definition of virginity is quite debatable.
I do get the sense that you come from a culture where virginity is extremely important for marriage-- and again, I'm not sure what your cultural/religious views are on masturbation.

Being "fit" for childbirth has nothing to do with the way your vagina looks-- that has more to do with your overall health, uterus positioning, fertility, and pelvic shape and size.

I hope my answer helped a bit and that you get other responses here as well :)

Best of luck,

Rosa