Well, he refuses to go out in public and says he will be uncomfortable and then said no. I tried to explain it would keep the tension to a low and prevent yelling outbursts from both sides. He said FINE he will meet me somewhere just tell him where. So I suggested coffee shop or he could pick a place that makes him more comfortable. His response:
"I will say that going to some public place is not going to help me feel comfortable. It makes me feel like I have to be on my defense and seriously, the fact that u even say that, that u don't even feel comfortable at my house and u don't want to do it at yours, that alone says something to me. u know what? No, I'm not going to drive to some place just to talk. I have as much right to feel comfortable as u do. We either agree on this or its already doomed."
I mean...this really does say it all. It's his way or no way.
I told him I can come by at 5 and pick up my things. He says not to bother that he will just drop them off at my door.
WOW
I'm very upset right now because he isn't even going to give me any closure and he is treating me like he never cared.
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Well, he refuses to go out in public and says he will be uncomfortable and then said no. I tried to explain it would keep the tension to a low and prevent yelling outbursts from both sides. He said FINE he will meet me somewhere just tell him where. So I suggested coffee shop or he could pick a place that makes him more comfortable. His response:
"I will say that going to some public place is not going to help me feel comfortable. It makes me feel like I have to be on my defense and seriously, the fact that u even say that, that u don't even feel comfortable at my house and u don't want to do it at yours, that alone says something to me. u know what? No, I'm not going to drive to some place just to talk. I have as much right to feel comfortable as u do. We either agree on this or its already doomed."
I mean...this really does say it all. It's his way or no way.
I told him I can come by at 5 and pick up my things. He says not to bother that he will just drop them off at my door.
WOW
I'm very upset right now because he isn't even going to give me any closure and he is treating me like he never cared.
June 24, 2011 - 2:40pmThis Comment
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