You are the only person that can determine what you want to do, and you have all of the facts to make an informed decision. It concerns me that this person is lying to you, and trying to make you sound unintelligent to imply (or outright lie) that his particular genital herpes was spread in any other way manner beyond genital-to-genital contact.
This person does not sound like he has your best interests at heart ("forgetting" to use a condom when you have an STD is actively choosing to infect the other person). You are also allowing him to "forget" and not use one, and please know that you have been lucky to this point if you are not yet infected with an STD. Please, please make sure he has a condom on his penis anytime you are both naked or have genital-to-genital contact. You do not know if he is still seeing other people, and if you ever decide that this is not the right person for you, you will be devastated to have an STD from someone when you have all the power and knowledge to protect yourself and your health.
Why would you not be more concerned about your own health that he might infect you? Please know: it does not make him noble that he proclaims to be worried about infecting you, yet lying about where he got the STD and "forgetting" to use a condom. Can you tell us more about yourself: Can you tell us how old you are? Are you in school or working full time? Do you have friends or family that you are close to? Do you have other interests or hobbies that you enjoy and participate in?
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You are the only person that can determine what you want to do, and you have all of the facts to make an informed decision. It concerns me that this person is lying to you, and trying to make you sound unintelligent to imply (or outright lie) that his particular genital herpes was spread in any other way manner beyond genital-to-genital contact.
This person does not sound like he has your best interests at heart ("forgetting" to use a condom when you have an STD is actively choosing to infect the other person). You are also allowing him to "forget" and not use one, and please know that you have been lucky to this point if you are not yet infected with an STD. Please, please make sure he has a condom on his penis anytime you are both naked or have genital-to-genital contact. You do not know if he is still seeing other people, and if you ever decide that this is not the right person for you, you will be devastated to have an STD from someone when you have all the power and knowledge to protect yourself and your health.
Why would you not be more concerned about your own health that he might infect you? Please know: it does not make him noble that he proclaims to be worried about infecting you, yet lying about where he got the STD and "forgetting" to use a condom. Can you tell us more about yourself: Can you tell us how old you are? Are you in school or working full time? Do you have friends or family that you are close to? Do you have other interests or hobbies that you enjoy and participate in?
July 10, 2011 - 12:32pmThis Comment
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