Stress can certainly lower a persons libido. The fact that he exercises every morning is actually a good thing for him if he feels so stressed out due to work. However, I'm not justifying no sex for 6 months-- that's way too long for a couple to go without sex. The thing is-- he seems like his life is work and then a couple of drinks at night (remember alcohol is a depressant) which will just put him to sleep. It seems like your boyfriend may not be ready to put enough time and energy into a relationship considering he has so much work to do and he's out of the state 2-3 weeks out of the month. If you're serious about your relationship then sit him down on the one day that he is in town and has the day off and lay it all out. Ask him if he is willing to dedicate some time to you because that's no relationship you have going on right now. It's best to bring this up now than to wait another two years only for him to tell you that this is how the rest of your life is going to be like if you stay with him.
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Hi Anon,
Stress can certainly lower a persons libido. The fact that he exercises every morning is actually a good thing for him if he feels so stressed out due to work. However, I'm not justifying no sex for 6 months-- that's way too long for a couple to go without sex. The thing is-- he seems like his life is work and then a couple of drinks at night (remember alcohol is a depressant) which will just put him to sleep. It seems like your boyfriend may not be ready to put enough time and energy into a relationship considering he has so much work to do and he's out of the state 2-3 weeks out of the month. If you're serious about your relationship then sit him down on the one day that he is in town and has the day off and lay it all out. Ask him if he is willing to dedicate some time to you because that's no relationship you have going on right now. It's best to bring this up now than to wait another two years only for him to tell you that this is how the rest of your life is going to be like if you stay with him.
Wishing you the best,
Rosa
July 18, 2011 - 6:37amThis Comment
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