It seems like your "over-active" libido is a result of only having sex once every couple of months. There's nothing wrong or irrational with wanting to be pleased more than you are and therefore resorting to masturbation. Have you talked to your husband about engaging in sex more frequently or is this not an option? It seems like the mood swings may be either hormonal or as a result of sexual frustration.
I think you would feel a lot better if you sat down with your husband and had an open and honest conversation of your feelings and sex life. He may not see the problem in having sex once every two months but he may also not realize that it is definitely affecting you.
Here's a great question regarding overactive sex drive: https://www.empowher.com/community/ask/high-sex-drive-normal-or-abnormal
Comment Reply
cwlgrad05,
It seems like your "over-active" libido is a result of only having sex once every couple of months. There's nothing wrong or irrational with wanting to be pleased more than you are and therefore resorting to masturbation. Have you talked to your husband about engaging in sex more frequently or is this not an option? It seems like the mood swings may be either hormonal or as a result of sexual frustration.
I think you would feel a lot better if you sat down with your husband and had an open and honest conversation of your feelings and sex life. He may not see the problem in having sex once every two months but he may also not realize that it is definitely affecting you.
Here's a great question regarding overactive sex drive: https://www.empowher.com/community/ask/high-sex-drive-normal-or-abnormal
Wishing you the best,
Rosa
September 14, 2011 - 7:03amThis Comment
Reply