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Hi anon,
I understand the difficulty of your situation and thought about it some more before I had answered your question. You know the best way to deal in such a situation is to be honest to your boy friend. Talk to him and tell him that his actions are bothering you. If you communicate how you feel towards him, you will know the truth. His behavior could be due to several reasons (including taking the first step to a commitment that he has made or even feeling overwhelmed with the situation and maybe even rethinking how he feels towards you) Thus the possibilities are endless. Its best to communicate with him that you are feeling hurt. Since he is living with you means that he definitely has strong feelings towards you, otherwise he probably would not have made the decision. However, this is only one of the possibilities I can think of. It is hard to tell without knowing him personally but if I were in your situation, I would talk to him and confront him regarding the feelings that you are having and the fears that are developing so that you and him are on the same page.
I hope this helps!