As bad as his last relationship was, this one doesn't seem to be any better. The more you nag someone into having sex with you, the less they're going to ever want to have sex with you. Instead of acting like a mature lady, you proceeded to act the way children do--throwing a tantrum every time he wasn't into it.
Don't get me wrong, I don't think he is a victim either-- by no means should there even be or have been any communication with his ex--not Skype, email, phone, etc. but it seems like, as a couple, you would both benefit from seeing a psychologist or therapist. Prior to working on your sex life, you will have to work on your relationship as a whole, since it is ultimately the reason why your sex life is doing so poorly.
Talk to him and see if this is something he's willing to try.
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Dear Anonymous,
Welcome to EmpowHer.
As bad as his last relationship was, this one doesn't seem to be any better. The more you nag someone into having sex with you, the less they're going to ever want to have sex with you. Instead of acting like a mature lady, you proceeded to act the way children do--throwing a tantrum every time he wasn't into it.
Don't get me wrong, I don't think he is a victim either-- by no means should there even be or have been any communication with his ex--not Skype, email, phone, etc. but it seems like, as a couple, you would both benefit from seeing a psychologist or therapist. Prior to working on your sex life, you will have to work on your relationship as a whole, since it is ultimately the reason why your sex life is doing so poorly.
Talk to him and see if this is something he's willing to try.
Best,
Rosa
October 12, 2011 - 5:19amThis Comment
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