I dated a guy that was 2 1/2 years younger than me for 2 years. We broke up because he cheated on me with a girl who had just turned 13. I'm 20 now, and he just turned 18, too. when we dated, i met him when he was 14, and I was 16. If you're uncomfortable with it, I don't think you should stay with him because then it will become a problem in your relationship that you won't stop thinking about.
Remember, he is younger than you. You will change and mature much faster than him. When you go to college, he probably will still be in that "highschool" mindset. You might not find the same interests anymore..you may even meet different people.
Just keep in mind that he is a kid, and you will soon be a legal adult--so things will change when you go to college..if you're going.
When my ex and I broke up,he cheated on me with a girl who had just turned 13. I found it repulsive because I was older (17 when that happened). I can't stress enough that he is only 15. He's got a couple more years left in highschool.either way,when my ex cheated on me, itwas almost 2 1/2 years ago, I've been with the guy im with now for 2 years. And now, he is the older one, he is 23. A friend of mine is in her 2nd year of college and her bf just turned 16. To me, that is not okay. I find it's better to be with a guy a little older than when before i preferred a little younger (because I was still in their mindset). Now things have changed. A little bit of an age difference shouldn't matter if you love him. Just expect the unexpected, and everything is always wonderful in the first couple weeks of a relationship, it depends on if it stays that way.
Comment Reply
I dated a guy that was 2 1/2 years younger than me for 2 years. We broke up because he cheated on me with a girl who had just turned 13. I'm 20 now, and he just turned 18, too. when we dated, i met him when he was 14, and I was 16. If you're uncomfortable with it, I don't think you should stay with him because then it will become a problem in your relationship that you won't stop thinking about.
October 15, 2011 - 6:11amRemember, he is younger than you. You will change and mature much faster than him. When you go to college, he probably will still be in that "highschool" mindset. You might not find the same interests anymore..you may even meet different people.
Just keep in mind that he is a kid, and you will soon be a legal adult--so things will change when you go to college..if you're going.
When my ex and I broke up,he cheated on me with a girl who had just turned 13. I found it repulsive because I was older (17 when that happened). I can't stress enough that he is only 15. He's got a couple more years left in highschool.either way,when my ex cheated on me, itwas almost 2 1/2 years ago, I've been with the guy im with now for 2 years. And now, he is the older one, he is 23. A friend of mine is in her 2nd year of college and her bf just turned 16. To me, that is not okay. I find it's better to be with a guy a little older than when before i preferred a little younger (because I was still in their mindset). Now things have changed. A little bit of an age difference shouldn't matter if you love him. Just expect the unexpected, and everything is always wonderful in the first couple weeks of a relationship, it depends on if it stays that way.
This Comment
Reply