I worry because it seems as though you already know this guy isn't right for you, yet you continue to pursue him. There is nothing wrong with a guy having girl friends-- but it seems as though his face book page has taken over your life-- 8 months of following someone online daily seems rather unhealthy to me. He will never live up to your expectation because you already know he has a lot of girl friends, that he is likely ladies man, and that just as he flattered you he can be flattering any other girl. Whether you choose to continue to pursue someone whose faults you are already familiar with is entirely up to you. However, I think you already know that a guy who has only been speaking to you for one week and is constantly talking to you about sex has only one thing on his mind. Him calling you his girlfriend is irrelevant and clearly another method of flattery.
I hate to be so blunt, but I think you are a smart girl and able to figure out that if your first few conversations with a boy are about sex-- then he's probably not interested in anything else about you.
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Dear Anonymous,
I worry because it seems as though you already know this guy isn't right for you, yet you continue to pursue him. There is nothing wrong with a guy having girl friends-- but it seems as though his face book page has taken over your life-- 8 months of following someone online daily seems rather unhealthy to me. He will never live up to your expectation because you already know he has a lot of girl friends, that he is likely ladies man, and that just as he flattered you he can be flattering any other girl. Whether you choose to continue to pursue someone whose faults you are already familiar with is entirely up to you. However, I think you already know that a guy who has only been speaking to you for one week and is constantly talking to you about sex has only one thing on his mind. Him calling you his girlfriend is irrelevant and clearly another method of flattery.
I hate to be so blunt, but I think you are a smart girl and able to figure out that if your first few conversations with a boy are about sex-- then he's probably not interested in anything else about you.
Good Luck,
Rosa
November 22, 2011 - 8:13amThis Comment
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