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guys tend to get embarrassed alot about their partners catching them masturbating. try to bring it up at another time in a nonthreatening,non angry way. let him know that you want to enjoy sex with him( any kind )even self pleasure. i think maybe him turning to you at the last was in a way his way of wanting to feel close to you, if he is having problems finishing during intercourse than maybe his actions had more to do with needed to feel and be with you than him being selfish. a good tip i can give you that i did with my husband is if he is masterbating and you catch him in the act take over, you masterbate him, then ask him to return the favor! men seem to really like that and it will bring you both closer together. another thing to try is you both lay across the bed (not touching) and both of you masterbate at the same time. it is a very exciting feeling to be able to watch your partner while pleasureing yourself. i hope you both can talk and maybe try some of these ideas and have a great relationship.