I am in the same situation, my BF and I have been together 5 years and engaged 2. The past 2 years we barely have sex. I mean we have gone without for 6 months. I have asked several times why and have brought it up and I get pushed away. The past few weeks I have tried to iniatte things, but I get rejected and he will say, "what are you doing? I mean we dont even kiss. He says he is tired, he is not in the mood, he said to be the other night, Im trying to get back on track, and IM like what does that mean? He doesnt really pay a lot of attention to me, physically, he says we dont have that kind of relationship and IM like well I want to. He is 38 and IM 32, and Im like he should be in his prime. I workout and take good care of myself and Im like ready to go! He would rather read or watch tv and Im like dude, what is up? I have tried asking nicely and suggesting medicine and he doesnt want to talk about it. The other night when I was rejected I made him sleep on the couch. I mean seriously? If he isnt happy with me than why is he with me? We have a house, dog, etc, but no wedding plans. I have cold feet cause now im worried. He doesnt ever want to have sex with me. It's sad... what should I do? IM really having bad thoughts and second thoughts about this. I mean I put myself out there and he was like" what are you doing? I was like kissing him and that's what he says to me? Any man would be like ok let's go! I dont get it.... Im frustrated.. big time!
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I am in the same situation, my BF and I have been together 5 years and engaged 2. The past 2 years we barely have sex. I mean we have gone without for 6 months. I have asked several times why and have brought it up and I get pushed away. The past few weeks I have tried to iniatte things, but I get rejected and he will say, "what are you doing? I mean we dont even kiss. He says he is tired, he is not in the mood, he said to be the other night, Im trying to get back on track, and IM like what does that mean? He doesnt really pay a lot of attention to me, physically, he says we dont have that kind of relationship and IM like well I want to. He is 38 and IM 32, and Im like he should be in his prime. I workout and take good care of myself and Im like ready to go! He would rather read or watch tv and Im like dude, what is up? I have tried asking nicely and suggesting medicine and he doesnt want to talk about it. The other night when I was rejected I made him sleep on the couch. I mean seriously? If he isnt happy with me than why is he with me? We have a house, dog, etc, but no wedding plans. I have cold feet cause now im worried. He doesnt ever want to have sex with me. It's sad... what should I do? IM really having bad thoughts and second thoughts about this. I mean I put myself out there and he was like" what are you doing? I was like kissing him and that's what he says to me? Any man would be like ok let's go! I dont get it.... Im frustrated.. big time!
June 23, 2012 - 7:51amThis Comment
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