what if you have no friends that you trust enough to speak about the traumas that have happen in your life?
How to handle when I told about the sexual abuse my father pushed on my older sister and i to protect my brother nieces. MY counselor said i had too..or my older sister had too or she turned my dad into the law. My older sister i just found out refused...was over20yrs ago so i wrote the letter confronting my father so my nieces would be protected and my father would not need go to jail and have his name out in public.
MY father was ready to write me off and lie from get go but all stood behind me..sisters .sister in law so he confessed.
HE still hates me and it has grown worse....gets very nasty so i stay away....but what has happen now is i end up not going ot family functions to avoid the remarks when he gets me alone. The nieces know he abused us but that is all they dont want to know more ...the family knows that i stay away because it hurts so much when he attacks me alone and they are far enough away from my house that i usually am in hotel all alone...just depressing.
I have asked them my family to support me t just let him know if the keeps it up he wont be invited...no one is willing.
MY father has been the ever great con man making himself look lke he is the good guy...my mom is villain and my sister and i only bring up sex abuse when we have problem with my parents....this is all so not true...but nieces hear this from my father but i cannot present my side of it...they want to stay neutral...how is neutral if they hear his side.
I was so close them before they called me their 2nd mom..now they do not even want to be around me.
What can i do to improve my situation...any ideas?
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what if you have no friends that you trust enough to speak about the traumas that have happen in your life?
May 14, 2012 - 4:28amHow to handle when I told about the sexual abuse my father pushed on my older sister and i to protect my brother nieces. MY counselor said i had too..or my older sister had too or she turned my dad into the law. My older sister i just found out refused...was over20yrs ago so i wrote the letter confronting my father so my nieces would be protected and my father would not need go to jail and have his name out in public.
MY father was ready to write me off and lie from get go but all stood behind me..sisters .sister in law so he confessed.
HE still hates me and it has grown worse....gets very nasty so i stay away....but what has happen now is i end up not going ot family functions to avoid the remarks when he gets me alone. The nieces know he abused us but that is all they dont want to know more ...the family knows that i stay away because it hurts so much when he attacks me alone and they are far enough away from my house that i usually am in hotel all alone...just depressing.
I have asked them my family to support me t just let him know if the keeps it up he wont be invited...no one is willing.
MY father has been the ever great con man making himself look lke he is the good guy...my mom is villain and my sister and i only bring up sex abuse when we have problem with my parents....this is all so not true...but nieces hear this from my father but i cannot present my side of it...they want to stay neutral...how is neutral if they hear his side.
I was so close them before they called me their 2nd mom..now they do not even want to be around me.
What can i do to improve my situation...any ideas?
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