Hi me & my Fiance have been together 8 years. I'm 32 he is 38. We have 2 children girl 7 boy 3. I got pregnant with in first 2 months of us going out with my little girl. Very quick we never had much time to get to know one another really. I mean he is a good man and we get on most of the time. He just never wants sex. It started just after we had my little girl so its been going on for 7 years. I have to ask for it and he says im too tierd. He does work night shifts right now so I do understand he may be tierd but he still finds time to do things he wants to. Also when he has had day jobs he is still the same. He says it's because of the night shifts he too tired. Him not wanting to come near me was affecting me I felt down and unattractive I never told anyone for 2 years as was embarassed. Then I told my best friend. She was nice about it her sex life was still good after 10 years of marrage. I started chatting to a lad from school on facebook one night and ended up telling him what was going on. He said to me that my Fiance was crazy for not wanting to have sex with me and im a very attractive. We then started sexing then phone sex I found this really exciting I could'nt wait for his mext message each day. I felt guity on my fiance so I ended it last year Jan 2016 he moved out for 2 months. He soon changed so I let him move back and I stopped talking to the lad from school but after a month or so of moving back in it went back to the same. He has also had testostrone test in the past as I asked him to it ce back normal level. And he has had councling but only attended 2 sessions as he said he never needed it. That made me angry as I think he might do as he also says hes not happy with his body so I think that could be a reason why he is like this. He dose have sex with me when he is drunk as he thinks he can peform better but to be honest its better when he is sober. In july 2016 I started talking to the lad from school again sexing, phones sex. We then arranged to meet up as I was visiting family in his area. (I moved away not long after leaving school.) We meet up and had really good sex in his car it was exciting too. I came home and went back to normal like nothing had happened. Bad I know. I do love my Fiance but he don't give me what I need it's really frustrating. Anyway me and the lad from school have started sexing and having phone sex again. I like the attention and its exciting I know its wrong.
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Hi me & my Fiance have been together 8 years. I'm 32 he is 38. We have 2 children girl 7 boy 3. I got pregnant with in first 2 months of us going out with my little girl. Very quick we never had much time to get to know one another really. I mean he is a good man and we get on most of the time. He just never wants sex. It started just after we had my little girl so its been going on for 7 years. I have to ask for it and he says im too tierd. He does work night shifts right now so I do understand he may be tierd but he still finds time to do things he wants to. Also when he has had day jobs he is still the same. He says it's because of the night shifts he too tired. Him not wanting to come near me was affecting me I felt down and unattractive I never told anyone for 2 years as was embarassed. Then I told my best friend. She was nice about it her sex life was still good after 10 years of marrage. I started chatting to a lad from school on facebook one night and ended up telling him what was going on. He said to me that my Fiance was crazy for not wanting to have sex with me and im a very attractive. We then started sexing then phone sex I found this really exciting I could'nt wait for his mext message each day. I felt guity on my fiance so I ended it last year Jan 2016 he moved out for 2 months. He soon changed so I let him move back and I stopped talking to the lad from school but after a month or so of moving back in it went back to the same. He has also had testostrone test in the past as I asked him to it ce back normal level. And he has had councling but only attended 2 sessions as he said he never needed it. That made me angry as I think he might do as he also says hes not happy with his body so I think that could be a reason why he is like this. He dose have sex with me when he is drunk as he thinks he can peform better but to be honest its better when he is sober. In july 2016 I started talking to the lad from school again sexing, phones sex. We then arranged to meet up as I was visiting family in his area. (I moved away not long after leaving school.) We meet up and had really good sex in his car it was exciting too. I came home and went back to normal like nothing had happened. Bad I know. I do love my Fiance but he don't give me what I need it's really frustrating. Anyway me and the lad from school have started sexing and having phone sex again. I like the attention and its exciting I know its wrong.
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