Hi anon,
First of all, you are a 23 year old woman. It sounds as though it is time to embrace your adulthood and do what's best for you and make your own decisions without being micro managed and shamed by your parents. It is quite normal for parents to treat their children like young kids if you are under the same roof. I am sad. to hear that they did not encourage you to work because that is a healthy way for young adults to gain more independence and confidence in yourself. It is always scary to move out but know that you are more capable than you think. I grew up in a dysfunctional home and moving out was the healthiest thing I have ever done. Make sure you have supports in place (student loan, part time job, friends to support you and help you move). Your parents will most likely fight you tooth and nail on your decision, because they know they would not be able to control you any more. You can do it! Live your life! Be empowered!
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Hi anon,
April 21, 2013 - 8:52amFirst of all, you are a 23 year old woman. It sounds as though it is time to embrace your adulthood and do what's best for you and make your own decisions without being micro managed and shamed by your parents. It is quite normal for parents to treat their children like young kids if you are under the same roof. I am sad. to hear that they did not encourage you to work because that is a healthy way for young adults to gain more independence and confidence in yourself. It is always scary to move out but know that you are more capable than you think. I grew up in a dysfunctional home and moving out was the healthiest thing I have ever done. Make sure you have supports in place (student loan, part time job, friends to support you and help you move). Your parents will most likely fight you tooth and nail on your decision, because they know they would not be able to control you any more. You can do it! Live your life! Be empowered!
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