The sad thing is, I think that, in one way or another, just about every wife can relate to this situation. My husband and I used to have sex 3-5 times a WEEK. Recently we have been having sex about 3 times a month. Two months ago, we broke a 3 month dry spell with zero sex. In the 15 yrs we have been together and the 7 we've been married, that has NEVER happened. 3 months without sex had my mind thinking all kinds of horrible things. Was he cheating on me? Does he still love me? Am I still attractive to him? What is going on? So finally, I asked him what his problem was. He said he was just tired and when he was interested, I would be sleeping. Ok so he works nights and I works days. He gets home from work and goes straight to his computer, while I work from home, in another room. I have caught him numerous times, masturbating to porn. It makes me sick and pissed off. It does hurt. It feels like he is cheating because he would rather jerk off to some fake porn, than have me. I am 10 yrs younger than he is and, granted I have gained weight since having his 3 children, he never complained about it before. This is just something recent that he's been doing. He swears he isn't interested in anyone else and that he is not cheating, but I don't know if I believe him. To me, a man that is addicted to porn is a sex addict. What is going to stop him for having sex with another woman? And if he is such a sex addict, why not have sex with me? I am at a loss here.
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The sad thing is, I think that, in one way or another, just about every wife can relate to this situation. My husband and I used to have sex 3-5 times a WEEK. Recently we have been having sex about 3 times a month. Two months ago, we broke a 3 month dry spell with zero sex. In the 15 yrs we have been together and the 7 we've been married, that has NEVER happened. 3 months without sex had my mind thinking all kinds of horrible things. Was he cheating on me? Does he still love me? Am I still attractive to him? What is going on? So finally, I asked him what his problem was. He said he was just tired and when he was interested, I would be sleeping. Ok so he works nights and I works days. He gets home from work and goes straight to his computer, while I work from home, in another room. I have caught him numerous times, masturbating to porn. It makes me sick and pissed off. It does hurt. It feels like he is cheating because he would rather jerk off to some fake porn, than have me. I am 10 yrs younger than he is and, granted I have gained weight since having his 3 children, he never complained about it before. This is just something recent that he's been doing. He swears he isn't interested in anyone else and that he is not cheating, but I don't know if I believe him. To me, a man that is addicted to porn is a sex addict. What is going to stop him for having sex with another woman? And if he is such a sex addict, why not have sex with me? I am at a loss here.
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