A person can only be helped if he recognizes that a problem exists, admits that there is a problem, and most importantly, wants help or wants to correct the problem.
I am very concerned when you mention that your boyfriend is becoming increasingly depressed. Low self-esteem will negatively affect his academic performance, overall health, and social relationships.
For now, maybe you need to back off. A brief period of separation may be necessary. But, if he is prone to depression, you will need to keep an eye on his well being, maybe through his friends.
Anonymous, is there a health service or counseling center on campus? Speaking with a trained counselor may help both of you.
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Hi Anonymous,
A person can only be helped if he recognizes that a problem exists, admits that there is a problem, and most importantly, wants help or wants to correct the problem.
I am very concerned when you mention that your boyfriend is becoming increasingly depressed. Low self-esteem will negatively affect his academic performance, overall health, and social relationships.
For now, maybe you need to back off. A brief period of separation may be necessary. But, if he is prone to depression, you will need to keep an eye on his well being, maybe through his friends.
Anonymous, is there a health service or counseling center on campus? Speaking with a trained counselor may help both of you.
Maryann
November 7, 2013 - 5:26pmThis Comment
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