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I am in the same boat as you. Only have been dating for 6 months.. he is my best friend and he is very faithful but he has always had low libido and there's always an excuse. We have no sex life. Maybe sex once every two weeks the longest was we didn't have sex for a month. It destroys me and he tells me it's not me it's him but it's killing my self-esteem. He wants me to initiate but everytime I try he has an excuse to not have sex. So why would you I want to keep trying to initiate when I keep being turned down.? And the same exact with me I give him a bj and then I'm On Top. Our sex life is so boring and it's the same thing every time and we fight when I bring up that it hurts me that he doesn't want to have sex with me. We are both 26 and living together. It's like he's only interested to have sex with me and weird ways like involving people through the internet. Like they watch us have sex or whatever which is not anything I like to do I hate it. We've done it a few times but it makes me so uncomfortable. Why can't he just want me love me screw me for me not with anybody else watching