Thank you for that reply - it does help a bit, however, I'm in a bad spot because I do not have any friends or family to help! I don't know his family at all - never spoke or even met them (and I'm moving in with them.. eek)
My friends are scattered all across the country - I'm not sure how to utilize them for any help :/ I've been trying to think of anything - the only help I can think of would be just listening to me vent if need be - and sometimes that's not very productive either!
The hardest times are like right now - I woke up to see he was in pain again. When he asks me things, sometimes I can't hear him because I'm already working on something (I've been planning this move and tying up loose ends), or I'm trying to relax by playing a game on my tablet. I have a hard time hearing sometimes, but he gets so angry at me when he feels he has to repeat himself. He's being exceptionally nasty to me today - screaming and yelling and throwing things, mad that I was "on my tablet" when he needed me to do something for him.
I don't know what kind of neuropathy he's dealing with - but his stomach is really hurting him bad. He has an endoscopy tomorrow so I hope that they figure out the problem and give him some meds that actually work for him! This started all of a sudden in February - before then, there were no major pain issues. When he feels ok he's super sweet - but when he's like this... I feel myself threatening to leave and I don't want it to be that way!
I'm hoping once we move and I have some help with this, that things will be easier.
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Thank you for that reply - it does help a bit, however, I'm in a bad spot because I do not have any friends or family to help! I don't know his family at all - never spoke or even met them (and I'm moving in with them.. eek)
My friends are scattered all across the country - I'm not sure how to utilize them for any help :/ I've been trying to think of anything - the only help I can think of would be just listening to me vent if need be - and sometimes that's not very productive either!
The hardest times are like right now - I woke up to see he was in pain again. When he asks me things, sometimes I can't hear him because I'm already working on something (I've been planning this move and tying up loose ends), or I'm trying to relax by playing a game on my tablet. I have a hard time hearing sometimes, but he gets so angry at me when he feels he has to repeat himself. He's being exceptionally nasty to me today - screaming and yelling and throwing things, mad that I was "on my tablet" when he needed me to do something for him.
I don't know what kind of neuropathy he's dealing with - but his stomach is really hurting him bad. He has an endoscopy tomorrow so I hope that they figure out the problem and give him some meds that actually work for him! This started all of a sudden in February - before then, there were no major pain issues. When he feels ok he's super sweet - but when he's like this... I feel myself threatening to leave and I don't want it to be that way!
I'm hoping once we move and I have some help with this, that things will be easier.
April 21, 2014 - 11:47amThis Comment
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