Your problem may have deep emotional roots. You mention feeling self conscious about yourself, tired or upset with your boyfriend's lack of helping with chores. These feelings will deeply impact your desire to initiate sex. Feeling sexy and wanting to be intimate depends on your state of mind as much as a physical response.
Finding a way to boost your self esteem and energy may help. Talk with your boyfriend. In a non threatening way, ask him to help with chores. Being demanding doesn't work. Trust me on that one.
It is important to sort this out before it continues much longer and before you consider marriage.
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Hello Anonymous,
Thank you for coming to us for help.
Your problem may have deep emotional roots. You mention feeling self conscious about yourself, tired or upset with your boyfriend's lack of helping with chores. These feelings will deeply impact your desire to initiate sex. Feeling sexy and wanting to be intimate depends on your state of mind as much as a physical response.
Finding a way to boost your self esteem and energy may help. Talk with your boyfriend. In a non threatening way, ask him to help with chores. Being demanding doesn't work. Trust me on that one.
It is important to sort this out before it continues much longer and before you consider marriage.
Regards,
August 20, 2014 - 8:39amMaryann
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