Thank you for sharing your experience, and I am so sorry to hear that you struggle with this as well. Trust is one of the most important elements of any healthy and happy relationship. Couples don't have to agree on everything-but when someone is lying to you, there's no foundation for the relationship to flourish. You shouldn't have to "compete" with the porn. Your partner needs to make the decision to put you first in his life and kick the porn or get help. If he can't or doesn't want to give it up..then ultimately you know where you stand.
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Hello toscar1960,
Thank you for sharing your experience, and I am so sorry to hear that you struggle with this as well. Trust is one of the most important elements of any healthy and happy relationship. Couples don't have to agree on everything-but when someone is lying to you, there's no foundation for the relationship to flourish. You shouldn't have to "compete" with the porn. Your partner needs to make the decision to put you first in his life and kick the porn or get help. If he can't or doesn't want to give it up..then ultimately you know where you stand.
I hope this helps!
Best,
Kristin
November 5, 2014 - 12:17pmThis Comment
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