Hey Pam, thank you very much for your reply, although I'm not sure if you quite understand my situation, but that's understandable considering that I didn't say much else besides talk about the main problem in my long distance relationship. I do agree with you, though, about not being able to fully resolve anything whilst continuing a strictly online relationship. That's 100% true, and that's why we've been going through hell trying to get his visa so that he can come here, which I actually talked about briefly at the bottom of my original post, he will be here in March. He's a Mexican citizen and I'm American, so it's not like he can just come over whenever we want so that we can talk about things, and I'm not going to pay thousands of dollars in therapy just because of that. I think it was insensitive and just unrealistic of you to suggest that. I would have elaborated about my relationship further but my post was already way longer than I wanted it to be. I just wanted some advice on what's going on sexually with my boyfriend right now, I wasn't looking for a self evaluation. I don't need therapy. Although, yes, of course the way my boyfriend is effects me, that doesn't mean I'm mentally unstable or need professional help. I'm just trying to figure out if anyone one else has gone through this, or if anyone else has had this problem with another man in an LDR.
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Hey Pam, thank you very much for your reply, although I'm not sure if you quite understand my situation, but that's understandable considering that I didn't say much else besides talk about the main problem in my long distance relationship. I do agree with you, though, about not being able to fully resolve anything whilst continuing a strictly online relationship. That's 100% true, and that's why we've been going through hell trying to get his visa so that he can come here, which I actually talked about briefly at the bottom of my original post, he will be here in March. He's a Mexican citizen and I'm American, so it's not like he can just come over whenever we want so that we can talk about things, and I'm not going to pay thousands of dollars in therapy just because of that. I think it was insensitive and just unrealistic of you to suggest that. I would have elaborated about my relationship further but my post was already way longer than I wanted it to be. I just wanted some advice on what's going on sexually with my boyfriend right now, I wasn't looking for a self evaluation. I don't need therapy. Although, yes, of course the way my boyfriend is effects me, that doesn't mean I'm mentally unstable or need professional help. I'm just trying to figure out if anyone one else has gone through this, or if anyone else has had this problem with another man in an LDR.
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