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thanks for ur reply.... this is arrange marriage....my first love is my husband....after divorce i try to hate him....but i cannot control my self...still i feel i am bond with him ...i love him...when he call me...we receive his call...me and my child meet with him...now the situation is friendly....i am BANGLADESHI... in my culture this type of communication is not allowed...my parents all time anxious for me...i am all time pray my Allah my husband feel me ..and attach with me..i am a teacher of special child....i want serve them....i want to continue my study...like Phd degree..my job....in my job time my child safe in my mother house....but my husband does not allow it...he want to keep my child to house keeper..or day care center...but this two option i cannot agree with him..but the quality of day care center and house keeper is not good for my baby...i think if i again marriage him he stop my job and study...and he need housewife...but when the marriage was arranged he said that he would support my job....his parents wants dowry...and he also support them...before marriage me and my family could not understand them....i am totally shocked for their attitude....my husband is a banker. well educated...but his behave...is too much bad...he cannot control his anger...some time he quarrel with her mother and hit her...her mother also hit him.....same thing he did with me ...i never hit him...i think he love me....but his ego is too much bad..he think women also serve men...they have no choice and opinion...my mind is simple and open....i cannot adjust with them.. i try to forget them ....but i cannot...i complete MS degree in child development and social relation... i think a child need father....this type of quarrel some environment......a child cannot grown up well...she loss her self respect....so i fly from them....but i cannot forget them...still i am week for my husband..