Well phrased! I'm realizing I can't make my needs small enough either. How did he act and react when you left? How long before you started to felt like you were thriving? It hurts to stay. After decades, the thought of leaving and all the little losses that will come I expect to be excruciating. My role seems destined to be a pain bearer. He uses things I value to wound, yet there are things I do love. When do you get comfort back?
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Well phrased! I'm realizing I can't make my needs small enough either. How did he act and react when you left? How long before you started to felt like you were thriving? It hurts to stay. After decades, the thought of leaving and all the little losses that will come I expect to be excruciating. My role seems destined to be a pain bearer. He uses things I value to wound, yet there are things I do love. When do you get comfort back?
March 12, 2015 - 2:15pmThis Comment
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