Thank you for sharing you question with the EmpowHER community.
It sounds like this has been going on for some time now. And that he's been offering excuse after excuse to keep your suspicions at bay. However it also appears as time goes on, you're discovering more and more that just doesn't sit well with you.
You mentioned having to practically beg him to touch you. That in itself is a red flag for a relationship headed towards marriage.
If the gay porn was not a concern, can you say you are without a doubt truly happy and sexually satisfied in your relationship? Are you willing to compromise your happiness long term?
You have a decision to make and you intuitively have been recognizing the signs. Trust your intuition it's there to guide you to your best life.
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Hi Anon,
Thank you for sharing you question with the EmpowHER community.
It sounds like this has been going on for some time now. And that he's been offering excuse after excuse to keep your suspicions at bay. However it also appears as time goes on, you're discovering more and more that just doesn't sit well with you.
You mentioned having to practically beg him to touch you. That in itself is a red flag for a relationship headed towards marriage.
If the gay porn was not a concern, can you say you are without a doubt truly happy and sexually satisfied in your relationship? Are you willing to compromise your happiness long term?
You have a decision to make and you intuitively have been recognizing the signs. Trust your intuition it's there to guide you to your best life.
Be well,
~Gillette
April 3, 2015 - 3:13pmThis Comment
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