I need advice. I might be in a emotional abused marriage. When my daughter was born 5 yrs ago we decided one of us should be a stay at home parent. He had gotten a job first so i stayed home with the baby and cared for our 7yr old son. We had moved in with my mother to save money after 6 months of giving birth. Money wasnt being saved due to his drug n alcohol problems. He constantly threw in my face that if i worked then we would have money for bills n his addiction so i could stop complaining about it. With his worked schedule me getting a job was impossible. We moved out this yr to our own house. He has a new job but because they dont drug test him he wants to stay here where he gets paid little and full time isn't always around. Once again he gets mad after i pay bills and there isnt any money left enough to pay for drugs beer n cigs. Saying its my fault cause i dont work. My daughter started school last month therefore im looking for a job to help with bills. He constantly throws in my face that i dont have money and i wouldnt make it on my own and he would get full custody of the kids cause i suffer from depression. So i stay. Its been 13 yrs with him and i feel like im worthless and not loved. He doesnt spend time with us. And he doesn't help with the kids. Im unemployed and stuck with him.
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I need advice. I might be in a emotional abused marriage. When my daughter was born 5 yrs ago we decided one of us should be a stay at home parent. He had gotten a job first so i stayed home with the baby and cared for our 7yr old son. We had moved in with my mother to save money after 6 months of giving birth. Money wasnt being saved due to his drug n alcohol problems. He constantly threw in my face that if i worked then we would have money for bills n his addiction so i could stop complaining about it. With his worked schedule me getting a job was impossible. We moved out this yr to our own house. He has a new job but because they dont drug test him he wants to stay here where he gets paid little and full time isn't always around. Once again he gets mad after i pay bills and there isnt any money left enough to pay for drugs beer n cigs. Saying its my fault cause i dont work. My daughter started school last month therefore im looking for a job to help with bills. He constantly throws in my face that i dont have money and i wouldnt make it on my own and he would get full custody of the kids cause i suffer from depression. So i stay. Its been 13 yrs with him and i feel like im worthless and not loved. He doesnt spend time with us. And he doesn't help with the kids. Im unemployed and stuck with him.
September 7, 2015 - 10:39pmThis Comment
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