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Well, its been 2 years, and you've gotten to know him very well. So, take advantage of the fact that you are significant in his life. Let your voice and your needs to be heard. You have the right to tell him that you need physical intimacy with him. I know its scary because you are putting yourself in a position to be possibility rejected.
However, this is where you need to make a choice. Can you live with a boyfriend/husband without having sex? If you decide that you cannot live without it, then you must see if he is willing to change for you. If he tells you he is not willing to change, then you must make an even harder choice. Will you stay with him anyway?
If you settle for less than you really want, you cannot blame him for that. So, if you decide to stay will him, even after he refuses to give you sexual intimacy, then you need to stick to the decision and not expect it of him. This will be very hard.
If you decided not settle for a relationship without sex, and you break up with him; it will also be very hard.
This is the dilemma of being an adult. Both the best and the worse decisions may take you down a difficult path. What matters is that you are true to yourself and what you really want. If you don't do that, you'll never be happy.
Faith

September 20, 2015 - 2:38pm

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