Im just getting close to my 17 year old niece..its nice to know what really can be a trigger for her in a question...so i watch her response to my questions trying to learn how she is not how the books or therapists say she will be...i ask her how do you feel about talking abiut...XYZ..etc...mostly she has a comment...then i try to tell her something that happened to me so i may or may not understand how shes feeling it is complicated but it opens her up...i try to just listen and not judge...shes opening up more and more...sad part is her father had no clue and sent her to treatment for a year....
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Im just getting close to my 17 year old niece..its nice to know what really can be a trigger for her in a question...so i watch her response to my questions trying to learn how she is not how the books or therapists say she will be...i ask her how do you feel about talking abiut...XYZ..etc...mostly she has a comment...then i try to tell her something that happened to me so i may or may not understand how shes feeling it is complicated but it opens her up...i try to just listen and not judge...shes opening up more and more...sad part is her father had no clue and sent her to treatment for a year....
September 3, 2017 - 11:18pmThis Comment
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