I think it's safe to say you recognize your relationship is changing. It sounds like it maybe changing in a way that you are not comfortable or satisfied with. Your partner has expressed what he wants, but you are part of the relationship too, so I ask, what do you want from a relationship? Are you willing to compromise what you want and just be available for someone else here and there? I know it can be difficult to transition from what is comfortable, but a lot of times change serves as a way to open our eyes and help us grow.
As for the question is there hope, the old saying is, there is always hope, but what exactly will it result in? Will you be happy or just settling? Only you can really answer whether there's hope and if it will get you the quality relationship you want. Just remember to be considerate of yourself in this process.
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Hi Anon,
Thank you for your question.
I think it's safe to say you recognize your relationship is changing. It sounds like it maybe changing in a way that you are not comfortable or satisfied with. Your partner has expressed what he wants, but you are part of the relationship too, so I ask, what do you want from a relationship? Are you willing to compromise what you want and just be available for someone else here and there? I know it can be difficult to transition from what is comfortable, but a lot of times change serves as a way to open our eyes and help us grow.
As for the question is there hope, the old saying is, there is always hope, but what exactly will it result in? Will you be happy or just settling? Only you can really answer whether there's hope and if it will get you the quality relationship you want. Just remember to be considerate of yourself in this process.
I hope this helps
December 24, 2015 - 2:36pmBe well,
~Gillette
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