Hello and welcome to EmpowHer,
I'm so sorry to hear that your husband responded in such an unsympathetic way. If you have not already shared your past hurts with him, I highly suggest that you do! He cannot understand your tears unless you explain the cause. Of course, not any girl would cry while making love. But after hearing of your background and your feelings it makes perfect sense!
I know you are afraid to trust him after he rejected you in such an awful way. But if you want to give him another chance I suggest that you explain to him how you were feeling and how amazing you felt with him. Tell him how you were overwhelmed by how wonderful it felt to be intimate with him.
No man in his right mind would shun you for saying that.
Its your choice. If you are not ready to trust him, you can leave. But I believe it was a genuine misunderstanding on his part and that he did not mean to hurt you further.
Faith
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Hello and welcome to EmpowHer,
July 3, 2016 - 5:01pmI'm so sorry to hear that your husband responded in such an unsympathetic way. If you have not already shared your past hurts with him, I highly suggest that you do! He cannot understand your tears unless you explain the cause. Of course, not any girl would cry while making love. But after hearing of your background and your feelings it makes perfect sense!
I know you are afraid to trust him after he rejected you in such an awful way. But if you want to give him another chance I suggest that you explain to him how you were feeling and how amazing you felt with him. Tell him how you were overwhelmed by how wonderful it felt to be intimate with him.
No man in his right mind would shun you for saying that.
Its your choice. If you are not ready to trust him, you can leave. But I believe it was a genuine misunderstanding on his part and that he did not mean to hurt you further.
Faith
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