Your love for him and how good things used to be can definitely cloud your decision to move on. But you are living in the now, and your decisions should be based in the now. For myself, I could not get over knowing he cheated with my sister. What they did behind your back is bad enough, even if nothing else happened. That said, you have no way to know for sure. Once trust is lost, it's very hard to get it back. It doesn't sound like he wants to gain your trust back if he is telling you it's getting hard to resist other women. You can't make the relationship work by yourself.
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Hi, Aanonyy.
Thank you for sharing your story.
Your love for him and how good things used to be can definitely cloud your decision to move on. But you are living in the now, and your decisions should be based in the now. For myself, I could not get over knowing he cheated with my sister. What they did behind your back is bad enough, even if nothing else happened. That said, you have no way to know for sure. Once trust is lost, it's very hard to get it back. It doesn't sound like he wants to gain your trust back if he is telling you it's getting hard to resist other women. You can't make the relationship work by yourself.
I wish you well in whatever you decide to do.
Helena
March 11, 2017 - 7:19amThis Comment
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