Your situation is not unique, unfortunately. I'm sure someone will ask whether you've sought counseling; but, I'd be willing to wager your husband would scoff it off. The problem is that it takes the both of you to work things out together; but the lack of communication and what sounds like your fear of him stand in the way.
Know that you have a right to your thoughts and feelings. You also have a right to be happy and feel like your marriage is a partnership, not a prison.
I found this article on this site and I hope there's something in it that can help you:
I also hope you can find the courage to voice your feelings and concerns to your husband and work things out so that you're communicating with each other. Or, you'll need to go to Plan B, whatever that means to you.
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Your situation is not unique, unfortunately. I'm sure someone will ask whether you've sought counseling; but, I'd be willing to wager your husband would scoff it off. The problem is that it takes the both of you to work things out together; but the lack of communication and what sounds like your fear of him stand in the way.
Know that you have a right to your thoughts and feelings. You also have a right to be happy and feel like your marriage is a partnership, not a prison.
I found this article on this site and I hope there's something in it that can help you:
Mutual Resentment in Marriage Can Be Deadly
https://www.empowher.com/news/08/02/08/mutual-resentment-in-marriage-can...
I also found this information:
Marital Abuse quiz
http://www.crescentlife.com/psychtests/marital_abuse.htm
Domestic Abuse
http://www.hiddenhurt.co.uk/Types/faces.htm
I also hope you can find the courage to voice your feelings and concerns to your husband and work things out so that you're communicating with each other. Or, you'll need to go to Plan B, whatever that means to you.
May 20, 2008 - 7:47pmThis Comment
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