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Am I just paranoid?

By August 15, 2011 - 12:45am
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So you can definitely psych yourself out because it was proven by psychological studies but I just had sex for the first time and it was 2 days ago. I am sort of worried because at one point he was thrusting just in that general area (which means precm) before I told him to put a condom on if he's going to do that. But right after I felt bloated and Ive been feeling bloated ever since. I'm also not that hungry I don't think or I'm really hungry but I don't feel like I'm getting food...please try not to scare me but are there bad signs.....

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Hi User1234,

Thanks for your question.

I'm a little confused... you say you had sex but then you say-- "At one point he was thrusting just in that general area...which means pre cum"? What does this mean?
If you had sex-- meaning, penis-to-vagina penetration and you didn't use protection then there is a possibility for pregnancy. This has nothing to do with psyching you out but whenever you have unprotected sex you are putting yourself at risk for pregnancy.

At this point you will have to wait for your next period and if it is late/missed then take a pregnancy test.

Good Luck,


August 15, 2011 - 6:11am
(reply to Rosa Cabrera RN)

There was a lot of precum near my vagina...not unprotected sex but first time and all...things got messy

August 15, 2011 - 7:18am
HERWriter Guide (reply to User1234)

Hi User1234

You need to be specific to get questions answered in a adult way. When you say you "had issues" or say "things got messy" - we don't know what you mean or how to help you. Please just put it out there (it's ok, you're anonymous!) so that we don't go around in circles trying to figure everything out.

If you are asking if you could get pregnant from pre-ejaculate that may have happened near the vagina, the answer is yes, but the risk is very small.


August 15, 2011 - 7:51am
(reply to Rosa Cabrera RN)

Sorry. It was before...I would never have unprotected sex! I don't really know how to explain it though. We basically had some issues and his penis "touched" my vagina. And sorry, I feel a little awkward sharing this!

August 15, 2011 - 7:15am
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