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Am I a virgin?

By Anonymous June 20, 2016 - 10:20pm
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I am a 28 year old female. I believe in waiting until marriage for sex. However, with my ex-boyfriend, I let him touch my breasts (of which I had orgasms), I touched his penis (for manual masturbation, although he didn't climax).

He caressed my clitoris, but I was wearing underwear and shorts at the time. After he started, I told him to stop, and he did. Is this fingering? If not, what is fingering?

Am I still a virgin?

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Hi Anon!

Thanks for your post!

It's concerning you don't know what fingering or whether you are a virgin or not at 28, regardless of your choices to remain celibate until marriage. Please take a look at our article here to know more: http://www.empowher.com/reproductive-system/content/how-sex-works

Fingering is the insertion of a finger inside the vagina. This does not seem to have happened so I think it is safe to say you are a virgin, certainly from a medical/biological standpoint.


June 21, 2016 - 4:38am
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Anonymous (reply to Susan Cody)

Thank you

June 21, 2016 - 9:06pm
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