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bleedi during sex with my partner

By Anonymous August 9, 2015 - 2:50pm
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I have problem if I during sex to my partner I bleeding,what happen to me thats why im scared now to do sex with him again.....having sex to my partner I bleed,so im shy now.and one time I put my finger inside my vagina and I touch the small ball inside my vagina and I know if my partner touch this things its bleeding....please help me about my problem.


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Hello Jhanna,
If this was your first time having sex then the bleeding was due to any of these common reasons: you were not well lubricated causing friction in the vagina, impact on the cervix caused bleeding, or your hymen tore a little.
Bleeding during the first time or times you have sex does not necessarily mean something is wrong. It simply means that next time you need to focus on being relaxed and use a lubricant if your body does not produce enough on its own.

August 10, 2015 - 12:05am
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Anonymous (reply to fchacon)

Ms.fchacon this not my first time,actually Im single mom and I have 4kids.....but if I having sex to my partner I bleeding and im scared to do sex with him again and im reallt shy...


August 10, 2015 - 12:14am
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

I see, that makes a big difference.
Sometimes bleeding can occur when you are a few days before or after your period. This is normal. However, if this is happening no where near your period then there could be something very serious going on. In that case, I strongly urge you to see a gynecologist and have a pelvic exam.

August 10, 2015 - 12:21am
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Anonymous (reply to fchacon)

Thanks Ms.fchacon for good and fast replied to my msg,and hope coming soon to going in doctors for telling my problem.i know this not my first time,im bleeding if having sex to my partner.May his thinking from now I have sick inside my vagina and he feel worried coz of my prob.....Ms.fchacon y my vagina is dry even I during sex and I not much water not same before,and i have two yrs I didnt during sex to any man.And last june 2015 I accept my boyfriend,and if he using me im to much dry and bleeding.what to do because I want im wet if I during sex with him....thanks jhanna

August 10, 2015 - 12:41pm
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Vaginal dryness usually occurs in women over the age of 40 from hormonal changes that cause low estrogen levels.
It is less common in younger women, but is still possible.
If you are tested for low estrogen and your levels are actually normal, then you can try using water-based lubricant.

August 10, 2015 - 12:52pm
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Anonymous (reply to fchacon)

Thanks for nice replied to my msg Ms.fchacon im really happy because I got your good answer to my msg,and thanks for helping me.....& I have last question,my small sister when she choose ligation shes not active in sex.this have any results to make her active in sex,because now she want give good time in her husband,please help my sister about her problem,thanks again jhanna.

August 10, 2015 - 1:16pm
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Your welcome,
In regards to your sister, you will need to explain the problem more clearly in order for me to give you advice on the matter.

August 10, 2015 - 11:46pm
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