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Can I be pregnant? Please help!!!

By Anonymous June 21, 2016 - 9:20am
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Is it possible to get pregnant by a drop of pre ejacultae OUTSIDE while naked vigorous humping without penetration, when you're ovulating and completely wet with fertile mucus?! Drop is also a stretch because condoms were used, only scared because once it slid up halfway but didn't come off the top and there was no penetration at that point. (No interaction without condom). NO ejaculation before or after in almost a week.
please help me? I am worried my stress will postpone my periods and trouble me even more.

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Hello! I took the pill June 6, 2016 and got my withdrawal bleeding on June 13, 2016. It was a heavy 8-day bleed and I'm still getting paranoid because I'm having abdominal cramps and slight nauseous. Am I pregnant? Pls help!!!!!!

June 23, 2016 - 7:51am
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Hello Anonymous,

If you had eight days of heavy vaginal bleeding, you are not pregnant. Stress and anxiety can be the cause of abdominal cramping and feeling slightly nauseous.


June 23, 2016 - 8:47am

Hello Anonymous,

Welcome to EmpowHER. Thank you for reaching out to us with your concern regarding possible pregnancy.

Pre ejaculate fluid itself does not contain sperm. Semen does and it only take one sperm to fertilize a released mature egg. It was risky to engage in genital to genital contact during ovulation.

However, if your partner was wearing a condom the entire time, you were safe.

You are correct that stressing out will cause a delay in the start of your period. Do your best to relax, because I think you were not at risk. But, if your period is late by more than seven days, test for pregnancy. Just seeing the results may calm any fears.


June 21, 2016 - 9:36am
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Anonymous (reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

Thank you so much! There wasn't even genital contact without the condom and not even penetrative. Created a story in my mind that somehow unnoticed precm managed to come out of the condom and touched my vaginal fluid OUTSIDE.
Need to make myself believe in science rather than surreal situations. My anxiety is just ruining everything!
Thank you once again!

June 21, 2016 - 10:56am
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anonymous,

So glad to have helped:) Knowledge and understanding how our bodies work and how conception occurs is empowering.

You might find this slideshow helpful.

"Am I Pregnant? Myths and Facts About Sex"


June 22, 2016 - 8:22am
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