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can i get pregnant ?

By Anonymous September 30, 2014 - 3:55am
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i was with my boyfriend on last weekend , we had romance ,
he fingered me and he ejaculated when i rubbed his penis , outside my vagina but near it , his sperms made my trouser wet ..
he then washed his penis ,
plus , i had my period date 28th , but i am not having it as it is 1st of next month now , should i get worried ?? and
i want to ask am i still virgin ?
can i be pregnant by this ?

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Hello Anonymous,

Welcome to EmpowHER and thank you for seeking our help with your questions.

If you were wearing trousers when your boyfriend ejaculated, then the semen got onto your trousers, made them wet, but did not come in contact with your vulva and labia, and did not enter your vagina. There is no risk for pregnancy.

You were still having your period when this sexual activity happened. Again, no risk for pregnancy.

A virgin is someone who has never had sex. But "sex" is defined differently by different people. A lot of people think that women and men lose their virginity the first time they have penis-in-vagina intercourse or vaginal sex. But this definition is really limited because it leaves lots of people and other types of sex out of the picture. Some people who haven't had vaginal sex don't think of themselves as virgins because they've had other kinds of sex, like oral or anal sex.

Anonymous, the definition of virginity is complicated. Figure out what it means to you, based on your culture, morals, and values.


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