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Can I have an orgasm without female ejaculation?

By Anonymous November 27, 2009 - 12:58pm
 
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At first my boyfriend was amazed I ejaculated over him, but over time he is now saying it is too messy and asked whether there was a way that I could have an orgasm without ejaculating ? This has made me feel less confident and so I'm now scared of having intercourse with him because he doesn't seem to want the female ejaculation anymore.

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Thank you for your question. Let me ask one question first, are you experiencing the female ejaculation with a g-spot orgasm or a clitoral orgasm? Many women tend to spray or emit fluids while they are experiencing a g-spot orgasm but will you tend to control that better with a clitoral orgasm.

Research indicates that woman can actually omit streams of fluid with the g-spot orgasm. You are actually experiencing an orgasm through your urethra rather than the vagina and thats what causes the excess fluid. This may appear embarrassing for some although you should be very lucky as many women will never experience this type of orgasm. Try to tell him that he is satisfying you in such a grandiose way that only 1 in 5 women are known to experience this. He may enjoy it more.

If this is your case, try a clitoral orgasm when you manipulate the clitoris instead of the g-spot. This may help. If I misunderstood your question, please reply again with more information but I think this is what you meant to convey. Hope this helps.

November 28, 2009 - 10:08am
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