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Can she get pregnant?

By December 19, 2010 - 11:54pm
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I'm 16. Today, me and my gf were making out in my bed.
She was wearing an underwear and I was wearing an underwear and shorts.
I didn't cum. However, I think I pre-cummed when i were making out with her.
While we were making out, I was fingering her vag ( my hand touched my penis before )
Is there any chance for her to be pregnant? I'm so worried now.
To make sure again, we didn't have intercourse. I fingered her. And we only kissed each other.

Btw, her period will come this sunday ( 26th ) I'm very worried about that now. And she's still virgin

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She doesn't want to go online and share this to anyone. Plus, she believes that she's not pregnant. She always keeps saying that to me...But I'm just worried and worried.
She had a normal ultrasound, the Dr said she was totally fine. And I think it was too early to detect pregnancy, so, i didn't believe in that ultrasound.
She tested pregnancy on 20th because I asked her to do it, I was freaked out.
I really appreciate your advices and assurance. They are helpful.
I tried to forget about this thing, then, she told me that she had her period early, I was freaked out again. She said it's probably from stresses.
I just need to share things and get advices.

February 15, 2011 - 12:13am
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Anonymous (reply to SC0307)

Hi, Can you tell me what happened in the end?

October 4, 2011 - 8:27pm
HERWriter Guide

Hi SC0307

If you girlfriend is still a virgin, and getting her periods every month (even if they are irregular or sometimes are a bit shorter/longer than the other) she is not pregnant.

I have a very hard time believing doctors are giving ultrasounds to test for pregnancy when she is a virgin who gets her period every month and is not late for her periods. Can you tell us how she had this ultrasound done, what doctors did it and what they told her? Additionally, she has had multiple blood and urine tests to test for pregnancy when again - she is a virgin who gets her period every month. This can only lead me to believe that perhaps these questions are not as forthright as one would like.

My suggestion is that you ask your girlfriend to talk to us as we have explained this to you over and over and you continue to ask us the same questions. Our information needs to come from your girlfriend directly and then we will get to speak to her directly. You don't seem to understand that a virgin who gets her period every month cannot be pregnant. We have many readers who need our help on many topics so if we can clear this up for your girlfriend, we'd appreciate that.


February 14, 2011 - 1:08pm

Hi SC0307,

If she had a period on Jan 19 and then again on February 13-- this is fine. It may be a little earlier than usual but as long as it lasts anywhere from 3 -6 days (sometimes more) it is a period. Whether it is heavier or lighter than usual doesn't stop making it a period. Periods change and this could very well be what happened.

I'm curious as to why she tested for pregnancy on the 20th when her period arrived on the 19th?

February 14, 2011 - 7:43am

Hi again,
My gf had her period on 19th of January.( last 6 days)
Then, she did an urine test on 20th of January, It came out negative.
Then, she had her period yesterday, 13th of January.
But, her period normally came on the 26th.
Is this a big problem?
Should i worry?
Her period came really early, and it was light...sometimes normal.
Please help

February 14, 2011 - 3:47am

But she did a test only about 11 days after we had fingered. Do u think it's too early?
We completely forgot about that thing, but today, she said, she had cramps, didn't feel like eating, and vomited. So, that makes me worried a lot.

January 25, 2011 - 1:03am
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Pat and Susan have given you some excellent information. I'm just here to tell you, once again, that your girlfriend CANNOT be pregnant from fingering. There must be sexual intercourse involved in order for her to be pregnant. Menstrual cycles are interrupted by many factors such as diet, weight loss, etc. But one that is usually the culprit is STRESS. If you are stressing out, I'm pretty sure you're girlfriend is too and this could very well be the reason why she hasn't had her period. It is also not even the 26th yet, so her period isn't really late.

Relax. There is nothing to stress out about in your situation.

January 25, 2011 - 6:48am

If she had an ultrasound that allows you to see inside her tummy,and it was nothing in there,she is not pregnant.You guys are taking this to far and worried over nothing.Just move on and focus on school.

January 25, 2011 - 12:46am

Hi there again,
As i mentioned before, we didn't have intercourse, just fingering. It happened on 23th of December.
My gf had her period on 26th of December and it lasted 5 days only.
She got her period again on 18th of January ( so it only took about 21 days to get her period ). She also had some period cramps
She had an urine test on 1st of January, it was negative.
She had ultrasound and blood tests on 4th of January, it was negative.
Then an urine test again on 7th of Janury, it was negative.
Now, she feels tired and doesn't want to eat, feels like vomiting.
Do u think it's too early to do those tests?
Is she pregnant?

January 25, 2011 - 12:43am
EmpowHER Guest

if u cant understand how it works then u shouldnt be having sex or close to having sex.
when I was 18, I lost my virginity. I was scared too I would get pregnant. But I didn't. Always use protection. Not only to prevent pregnancy but diseases as well.
A woman's period is normally crazy. Believe me. I keep a calender on mine and I would start early or late or have a period for two days or sometimes 5 days. It sometimes start heavy and tapers off..sometimes start light and ends. You were thinking pregnancy and bleeding, u were thinking about implantation bleeding. that is rare but happens (it did me when I was pregnant with my first).
Dont panick.and be thank ful she wasnt.
next time use a condom if u worry.

December 31, 2010 - 9:03am
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